Everyone reaches a time in their lives where they need financial help. At least most do. One of the hardest things to do in life is to say no to a friend in need. Unfortunately, this is what you should say when it comes to friendships and how lending money can affect them, but you don’t. Instead, you act as the good friend you are, and say yes. There is so much more than dollar bills associated with lending money to friends. There are years of laughing, crying, and experiences that you wouldn’t trade for the world. So, know that all of these things are possibly at stake when lending money.
In deciding to lend money to a friend or family member, first make sure you can afford to do it. If you loan this money, will it put you in a financial bind? If so, then drop consideration immediately. Simply tell your friend that yes, while you may have the cash in hand now, if you lend it, then you will be placed in a burden as well, and that doesn’t help anyone’s situation. A good friend should understand this. If you at a place that you can loan some of your money, then make sure you do it the right way.
Come to an agreement on the terms of the loan. What is the total amount that you are loaning? What,if anything, will be used as collateral? Decide what the payback terms are, and what the payment dates are. All of the terms should be well discussed and agreed on by both parties. Introducing collateral will help you in the event that your friend isn’t able to pay back the loan on the time agreed. Agree that you will take the collateral either to keep for yourself, or to take to a pawnshop if the loan isn’t repaid as agreed.
Finally make sure everything is in writing. Although a piece of paper with a handwritten agreement can stand up if you ever need it to in court, a well thought out and organized, typed letter would be much more appropriate. You want this transaction to look, feel, and actually be a business transaction. Although it is still your friend, try and make this a separate transaction from your friendship. Make sure both of you sign the agreement, and you both have a copy to keep. Having a witness sign as well, or a notary, is an extra step that may come in handy at a later time.

August 18, 2008
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